You don’t need to invoke — and may not invoke — the eternal Trinity to know that the wife must be subject to her own husband. The Bible teaches you that. The eternal (ontological) Trinity doesn’t.
Too many to list here.
A number mentioned here: https://www.amazon.com/Rise-Fall-Complementarian-Doctrine-Trinity/dp/1532618662
Too many to list here.
A number mentioned here: https://www.amazon.com/Rise-Fall-Complementarian-Doctrine-Trinity/dp/1532618662